Have you or a friend experienced domestic violence? You might be feeling confused because you never thought this would happen to you.
Even if the person says they are sorry, offers you gifts, or promises to never do it again, domestic abuse is wrong. It’s important to be able to recognise the signs so you can stay safe.
Abusive relationships can occur between partners, ex-partners, parents and children or other people you live with and see often.
The signs of domestic violence include:
- Hitting or sexual abuse
- Being threatened, criticised or yelled at
- Being prevented from spending time with your friends and family
- Monitoring your emails, phone calls and movements
- Blocking or controlling your access to money
- Making threats of self harm if you try to leave.
If this is happening to you and you fear for your safety, go to a safe place where you can call for help by dialling 000.
Remember that any kind of abuse is unlawful and there are laws in Australia that will protect you.
No matter how small or insignificant the abuse may seem to you, there are people who can help. You can call Redfern Legal Centre or any of the following hotlines for free advice.
For free and confidential advice call:
1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732 (24 hrs)
Domestic Violence Line: 1800 656 463) (24 hrs)
Sydney Women’s Domestic Violence Court Advocacy Scheme: 02 9287 7505
Mens Line: 1300 789 978
Kids Helpline: 1800 551 800
Women’s Legal Service NSW: 1800 801 501
Redfern Legal Centre International Student Service 02 9698 7277.